None of my relationships are based solely on sex. The people I sleep with are always more than just a one night stand. Most of them are friends… Or become friends with time. Tony did start as a one night stand and now he’s one of my best friends. (ex)boyfriend started as some kinda one night stand too, and then I fell in love. Bubblegum Boy was my classmate for three years before we had sex. And last night Emo Boy made absolutely sure it’s not only sex for him.

That’s the way I like it. For me to sleep with someone I need to trust them. I need to know that they would stop in a split second if I needed it. For me it seems to be easier to trust guys I’ve slept with… Cos if they stick around I know they weren’t just pretending to me my friend to get laid.